Maybe you’ve heard how important diaphragmatic breathing is, but every time you try, it feels challenging. Today, we’re diving into tips for breathing better—small adjustments that can make a big difference in sleep, pain relief, and nervous system regulation.
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Why Proper Breathing Matters
We take about 25,000 breaths a day. If you’re using a dysfunctional pattern, you’re reinforcing it thousands of times daily. Over time, this can contribute to:
- Neck and shoulder tension
- Lower back and hip pain
- Pelvic floor dysfunction
- Poor sleep and chronic stress
- Increased anxiety and nervous system dysregulation
Many people unknowingly breathe from their neck and shoulders, which keeps the body in a constant fight-or-flight state. The good news? With a few simple tips for better breathing, you can shift to a more efficient, relaxed breath pattern.
6 Key Tips for Breathing Better
Step 1: Set Your Tongue & Jaw for Better Breathing
The position of your tongue and jaw plays a key role in how to breathe properly. Try this:
- Place your tongue on the roof of your mouth—the top third should be suctioned there.
- Let the tip of your tongue gently touch your top teeth.
- Keep your teeth slightly apart and allow your jaw to relax.
This helps create the ideal airway position for smoother, more natural breathing.
Step 2: Adjust Your Breathing Direction
Instead of pulling air straight back, try angling your breath slightly upward.
- Imagine holding a bouquet of flowers and gently smelling them as you inhale.
- This subtle change can increase expansion and ease your breath.
As we continue, try maintaining this inhale technique.
Step 3: Engage 360° Abdominal Expansion
A proper breath should expand in all directions, not just upwards into the chest.
- The first two-thirds of your inhale should expand all the way around your abdomen.
- The last third moves slightly forward and back—not up into your shoulders.
When you breathe properly, the diaphragm moves downward, creating intra-abdominal pressure, which supports your core and spine.
Quick Check: Are You Breathing Properly?
- Do you feel expansion in your abdomen?
- Or is most of the movement in your neck and shoulders?
If your breath is too shallow, use the tongue and jaw cues to help guide it downward.
Step 4: Exhaling with Control
When you exhale through your nose, focus on engaging your core:
- Think of your abdomen contracting like a corset, naturally stabilizing your midsection.
- This controlled exhale improves breath efficiency and helps maintain proper posture.
Step 5: Find Your Ideal Breathing Tempo
One of the best tips for breathing is to slow down your breath. Research suggests an ideal breathing pace of 5-6 seconds in and out to:
- Stimulate acetylcholine, a neurotransmitter that promotes relaxation.
- Reduce pain perception.
- Regulate the nervous system for better stress control.
If you struggle to breathe at this pace, you may have airway restrictions or nasal blockages. Instead of forcing a specific tempo, focus on optimizing your breath mechanics first.
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